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Express the life.: Falling in love and loving someone.

lilytrang:

There is a difference between falling in love with someone and loving someone. Please learn to differentiate it and do not get it mixed up because they do not definitely belong in the same category. They are two completely different meanings. If you cannot tell the difference, then you are in between loneliness and emptiness which result in that you are simply confused. It is more than likely that you are loving them as a person rather than actually falling in love with them. If you cannot tell the difference with falling in love with someone and loving someone just for who they are, it will turn into a mess.

More than half the time, people just tend to love the person they are, but not fall in love with them. If they did, it would not have been out of loneliness even though they did not know it from the start, it begins that way a lot of the time. It would have not been, but it was. It was and that is the unfortunate part. That is why from observations, there are so many heartbreaks and tears.

There is always a way to tell if you really are in love with someone or just loving them for who they are. It is because you fall in love with them without realizing it rather than loving them and realizing that you love the feelings you feel when you are with them. People loves feelings over the person and that is where things goes wrong. The moment you enjoy the feelings and emotions you feel is the moment you do not realize it, but you technically allow your loneliness to be fulfilled by this person’s affection. Once that person is not around like they used to be, you crave for their existence physically or you crave for their love. Their love and not them. You miss them, but you miss the feelings they give you.

Do you understand it a bit better now? Falling in love and loving someone are two entire individual meanings that people get confuse with. Please learn the difference and do not get it confused to save the heartbreaks for later and now.

This actually…helps.

Thank you…(:

http://lilytrang.tumblr.com/post/3045239299/i-love-my-best-friend-more-than-anyone

lilytrang:

I love my best friend more than anyone.

I can not stress enough about how much she have done for me. She’s the person who digs me out of my hole. She’s the person who listens to me when I cry, when I’m on the verge of feeling like I want to commit suicide. She’s the person who understands me the best. She’s the person who makes me laugh and smile so much. She’s the reason why I’m still here on in this bittersweet world. I love her more than anyone. She’s the closest people I have to family. She’s the one who’s there through thick and thin with me. I just freaking can’t explain how much she means to me. If it wasn’t for her, I wouldn’t be the person I am today. If it wasn’t for her, I’d be lost. Honestly, I can’t imagine my life without her. Every inch of my heart contains some type of memories I have with her because everyday, we talk. It’s so silly and sometimes deep. I love how comfortable I am around her. I love how I can just fall asleep around her even though I don’t see her as often as I wished I could. I love how strong our bond is even when we stop talking for a while. I love the fact that she’s alive and she exist in my life. Even though I hate the fact that distance is our main cause of our friendship, she’s still there for me, mentally. She means a lot to me. I just can’t stress enough of how much she means to me. She just do. I love her and I know she loves me as much as I love her, as corny as it sounds. She knows it’s true too.